I promise that you will always be at the top of my priority list. I promise to strive to give you the time & attention that God offers us as our Heavenly father.
There’s a problem I see more & more everyday & I’d like to address it for those who are confused.
BEING A SINGLE PARENT DOESN’T GIVE YOU A FREE PASS TO BE LESS OF A PARENT.
Just because you are separated doesn’t mean you’re a part time parent. It doesn’t mean you are half responsible for your child.
I have literally heard parents say things like “my babies dad/mom never gets them so I never get a break”. What even?
Yes, ideally we could all make it work with our children’s other parent but that’s just not realistic.
Why does it seem like the mentality of parents (sadly often the younger ones) is “I wonder is anyone wants to watch my kid this weekend so I can be free”. Free? For what? Free to go to the lake, the casino, hangout with my new girlfriend, or get drunk with my friends.
This is so depressing to me.
You are a parent now. I am SO sorry if that inconveniences you. You literally have a child that wants nothing more in the world than your time & attention.
I’m not referring to an occasional spa day or date night. I’m not referring to your child wanting to stay the night at grandma’s every few weeks. There are parents who literally post about going clubbing or partying every other weekend because thank goodness the kids are going to their dad’s house so I can finally be irresponsible.
Another thing I feel like people do not understand: coparenting does not mean with your parents. Why are grandparents who’s children are grown expected to raise your kid half the time?
Find new hobbies that your children can take part in. Go to the park, amusement parks, fishing, skating, go on picnics, swimming, an arcade, etc. Your child is not a burden. Stop looking forward to pushing them onto other people so you can think about yourself.
Your kids are gonna grow up & realize that under the sugar coating of “going to grandma’s” or “dad’s gonna watch you”, you’re just trying to get rid of them.